Thursday, February 16, 2017

5 Things NOT To Do On Instagram

We all love Instagram. The filters, the hashtags, the saltiness. (Kidding)
Business use or personal use, whatever the reason may be, we all love Instagram. (Are you following me yet?!)

Whether these tips ACTUALLY help your Instagram grow OR if they just help you in life, here are five things NOT to do on Instagram.


1. Do not feel like you have to have a "theme". Once I heard what "themes" were I literally sat there looking at my phone like this

If you don't know, themes are when people only post pictures on their insta page with certain colors so it looks aesthetically pleasing. Do I understand that? Sure. But will I not post a picture because it doesn't have a blue object in it? Absolutely not. #postallthepictures 

2. Speaking of hashtags...for the sake of everyone, PLEASE limit yourself. I know first hand the love someone can have for hashtags. I use them often. And a lot of them. But if you are using over 20 hastags on one picture AND hashtags that aren't even relevant to your picture, please stop. It's annoying. And #for the sake of #everyone, #please #stop doing #this.

3. Please quit deleting your pictures for the sake of having a "low picture count". I don't even know why this is a "thing", but it doesn't get you any where. Post all the pictures. Have you not heard of ChatBooks?!

4. Quit using stock photos. If you are a blogger/instagrammer (is full time instagrammer a job?) please quit using stock photos. We want to see YOUR talent/pictures/life/pretty face/lunch/outift. Not something off google.
5. Same filter on all your photos may look great, but does it REALLY look great? Sometimes my picture looks better in Slumber than it does in X-Pro II but am I going to ONLY use X-Pro II because ALL my pictures are in that filter!? No! Girl, use those filters however you want!!

I know some of these don't seem "practical" but trust me when I say each of them are so out of this world annoying. So whether you apply them to your gramming or not, I hope you enjoyed this! What are some of your rules and/or pet peeves about Instagram?! Find me on there and leave me a comment telling me about them!



Wednesday, February 15, 2017

The Truth About My Life Right Now

Why do I do this to myself? I go months and months and months without blogging and totally kick myself in the ass for it.
Guys, the last few months of my life have been hard. I talked about 2016 in a recap in December and that was my last post. Depression is a silly biznatch like that. It makes you want to do nothing, see no one, and gives you literally NO motivation. But as a wife, mom, and full time employee, doing "nothing" isn't an option. So I went through the motions, day in and day out, and guys...it was draining. It IS draining. As in currently, I AM DRAINED.

I have such a weird complex with blogging.
Do I want to blog? Absolutely. But do I feel pressured to dress the best, act the best, have the best? Absolutely. It's so silly. So so so silly. I'm sick of feeling like I have "nothing to post".

One thing I've learned about the internet is that there is ALWAYS room for you. I feel like a broken record when I say that, but it's true. If you want to talk, pour your heart out, and put whatever the hell you want on the internet...GO FOR IT!

I've been at a really low point in my life. I thought after we miscarried I would have nothing to talk about. I felt like no one would be interested in anything else going on in my life. But do I blog for other people? Do I write for their satisfaction? Obviously not. I never have. So why would I start now?

The truth is...I've been in a major rut. I'm trying so hard to get out of it, because trust me when I say it is the worst thing I've ever gone through. I am so thankful for a supportive husband. And I don't mean support like "oh yeah he loves and supports me". I mean supportive like he recognizes my down days and can say to me "are you having a down day? Is there anything I can do? What do you need?" That to me is true love, and support, and a best friend. He really is my rock.

I am hoping to get in more of a routine with blogging. I can do this. This is my happy place and no matter how many times I stray from it, I always have a longing to come back. Something about writing clears both my head and my heart. So here's to writing in 2017!

Friday, December 30, 2016

The Year That Kicked My Ass

This year was tough. And I don't mean tough like "I had a few rough days", I mean tough like I cried majority of the year and I wish I was even halfway kidding when I say that.

I've been writing this post in my head for about a month or so. I wasn't sure how much I wanted to say or what I wanted to share. (Trying to be respectful for all parties involved) I've always been vulnerable on here, that's no secret....but something about actually writing things out is so scary. It is so so so scary.


We started out our year by celebrating two years of marriage. Now coming up on three years, it's crazy to see how quickly these years have gone. I know it's only three years, but woah! What a wild ride. We went on our first cruise and we spent a weekend in San Francisco. Great, GREAT memories from both of those trips!


Our sweet little girl turned six this year. One SASSY six year old she became this year.

We went camping, we fixed up our house, and we created wedding films. We did a lot of fun things. The year wasn't ALL bad, but...the title of this is The Year That Kicked My Ass....so let's get onto that part....it's therapeutic for me. Disclaimer: I understand not everyone approves of talking about issues in your life openly on the internet. You do you and I'll do me. This works for me.


I try my hardest not to dwell on the past or things that don't make me happy, and TRUST ME, it is something I am working on. My husband will laugh at that sentence because of how much I DO dwell on things, but it's one of my character flaws I hate most about myself. I am working on it. Just love me. It's what I need most right now.

In August we found out we were pregnant. After almost two and a half years of trying, praying, and crying for a baby, we finally got our turn. This came right after going through the toughest few months in our marriage. Parts of our marriage I honestly didn't know how to handle. I was over the moon about our pregnancy, but I couldn't help but wonder "why?" What was God's plan here? I honestly thought we were being Punk'd. Ashton?! Where are you? I told myself that God was telling us that our marriage was worth it. This was worth fighting for. This was his sign for us. But in October, when we miscarried, I again wondered what the plan was. Why me? Why us? It was so hard to wrap my head around. And honestly? It still is. It's still hard. I know healing takes time, but when is it enough time? Will I ever fully "be over it"? Not that I ever need to be over the pain of losing a baby, but some days I don't feel validated for my feelings. I am not sure who I think I need to answer to, but most days I feel like it is someone other than myself...

This year was a lot of self reflection. It was a lot of learning. It was a lot of growing.
It was a lot of crying and screaming and fighting and saying "I'm sorry" and taking a step back to see who I was becoming. It was hard. Admitting things like this is hard.
I think one of the hardest things for me to admit is when I have downfalls. But those are what make us human, right? If we never admit these things, do we ever give ourselves the chance to grow from them?

No. The answer is no.

This year was a year of growing. Growing as a couple, growing as a family, and growing as a person. Sometimes not in the direction I had hoped for, and that's okay. I need to take time and realize that not everything is going to be perfect. Life isn't picture perfect. There are mistakes to be had, there are lessons to be learned.

One thing I know though? Through all of this....I really got the better end of the deal. I geta loving husband. A husband who chooses me and a husband who chooses our marriage. A husband who loves me on my hardest days and laughs with me on the good days. A husband who doesn't always see eye to eye with me, but challenges me to see things a different way while trying to understand where I'm coming from in the same breath.

Guys, this year kicked my ass. Emotionally, physically, mentally....everything. It wasn't a year I was proud of. It wasn't a year I did anything amazing. It wasn't a year that I accomplished anything cool. It was, however, a year that taught me a lot, and that is worth celebrating.

2017 will be our year. It will be MY year. I have 5302920 ideas for blog posts, YouTube videos, EBooks (WHAT?!) Just roll with it....


I hope 2017 is amazing for all of you. I truly, truly mean that. I hope this next year challenges you, changes you for the better, and brings you lots of happiness and joy. As always, thank you for taking time out of your day to read my ramblings. Most of this blog doesn't make sense, but for some reason I keep writing...I appreciate those of you who keep reading.

Sunday, December 11, 2016

Why We Love Elf On The Shelf

Elf On The Shelf sure has gotten a lot of hate the past few years. And I have one thing to say…guys, quit being bullies! Also, if you are a child reading this I am A) concerned that your parents don't monitor your internet usage better and they allow you to read my blog and B) don't continue reading. I may ruin Christmas for you.

We are one of those families that participate in the ever so controversially Elf On The Shelf. And guess what? WE LOVE IT!

I am going to give you just a few of the reasons why we continue to do Elf On The Shelf in our home!

1. Although they may be creepy, they ARE kind of cute. It took me about a year of moving the elf around to not be afraid of it any more, and now we are on good terms…

2. My kid really is a better kid because she thinks Santa is watching. And guess what? I'm okay with that. It's called THE MAGIC OF CHRISTMAS. Don't be so cold hearted.

3. Yes, sometimes our elf brings "surprises", and it completely makes her day. She jumps with joy if she knows she's been a good girl and Santa sent a gift with Snowflake just for her! I mean really, how special is that for a kid?!

4. Straight up TRADITION. I love traditions. Like really really love them. Ever since baby girl was old enough to enjoy Christmas, we have done Elf On The Shelf. I want to keep that going until she's 37.

5. Our elf is EXTRA SPECIAL and likes to make "surprise appearances" during the "off season". She is just making sure we are being good ALL YEAR ROUND and reporting back to Santa. AKA…our hiding spots suck and sometimes small children find them. We're human. And honestly, that's hilarious. So I had to share.

I know we can't be the only family who loves Elf On The Shelf! Who else loves it?!
Thank you for reading and I hope everyone has a great week!

Saturday, December 10, 2016

Behind The Scenes | Steven & Mikenzie Mexico Beach Wedding

As many of you know M and I have ventured in the cinematography world for the past year or so. We absolutely love it and I love the direction this business is going. If you haven't checked it out, HERE is our website and HERE is our Facebook page. Now that we've addressed that, this post might not seem SO out of the blue for some people. ;) 

Over the weekend of November 5th we traveled down to Rocky Point, Mexico to shoot our highest paying gig yet. Kidding, kidding. It was for my brother and sister in-laws wedding. Haha. They didn't ask us to do this, but we wanted to try and put together something special for them. I loved the challenge of being apart of the wedding but also thinking in terms of cinematic shots. 

It was fun to be getting ready together and knowing in my mind I was looking for video quality shots. Every time I would see something I would run and grab the camera and get what I could. M set up GoPros on the beach which captured the ceremony perfectly. For being as "low-key" as we were, I am amazed at how great things turned out. But really, how bad can things turn out with the beach as your backdrop and a beautiful couple?!

After the ceremony we tagged along with the photographer to capture a few shots on the beach and I absolutely LOVE the way they turned out. Guys. If you're ever getting married on a beach, please call us! I loved loved loved shooting this! (Or if you're getting married anywhere, call us, we do not discriminate.) M threw the drone up in the air and got some awesome shots of the jaw-dropping venue. 
Big homes + beach + wedding = what Pinterest dreams are made of. 

I love doing this business with my husband. Like really really love it. I think we make an amazing team and I love being by his side for this. We are so excited to share this video and truly LOVE the way it turned out! Congratulations, Steven and Mikenzie. We love you guys so so much! 

(Blogger only gives me the option to embed from YouTube, not Vimeo, so here is the link here https://vimeo.com/192410677)




Monday, December 5, 2016

A Pampered Chef Gift Guide | Top 5 Items

*I am an Independent Consultant with Pampered Chef and anything purchased from these links will go towards my sales*

There is no denying the fact that I love Pampered Chef. I think in every recipe I do, or anything I make in the kitchen, I use AT LEAST one Pampered Chef product in the process. When I think of classic kitchen tools, I think Pampered Chef. 

I've put together my top five items for this holiday season for you and I am so excited to share them! These make great gifts for seriously ANYONE. I could go on and on about PC, but let's just get into the good stuff…

If you've never heard me talk about the stoneware or the pizza stone….you probably haven't been around too long. ;) Kidding, but really….I love love LOVE my pizza stone. We do just about anything on the pizza stone including…you guessed it…PIZZA! Haha. Kidding, again. We do however do cheese crisps on it and they are out of this world. Try it sometime. Thank me later. 


Next is something I actually don't own, however I think it would be perfect for the holidays, birthdays, Tuesday nights when you need a pick me up….
A. WHIPPED. CREAM. MAKER. Hello this is all my dreams coming true in one product. Homemade whipped cream is seriously the BEST and this tool makes it beyond easy. Once again, you can thank me later when you purchase this and it's the greatest thing since this blog…or sliced bread…whatever saying you like to use. 

Link to Whipped Cream Maker:


This Wood & Slate Cheese Serving set is my favorite. This needs no explanation. It is literally perfection and I imagine a lot of Pinterest worthy pictures coming from this here set up. 

Link to Ash Wood & Slate Cheese Serving Set: 


Everyone has kids they are buying for. No one knows what to get kids these days because they all have everything they need, plus some, and have too many toys already for their own good and enough clothes to last them until they are 17 and Barbies like you couldn't even imagine…..but hey, I know nothing about that! REGARDLESS! This Kids Cookie Set is totes adorbs and I can't wait to get in the kitchen with my mini to use these! 

Link to Kids' Cookie Set:



And I just had to throw this last one in here because…well…it's the holidays….the wine will be a'flowin'….and who doesn't need markers for their wine glasses?! And at less than $10.00, you need these. I promise. 
You really really need these. 

Link to Wine Glass Markers:


You really can not go wrong with Pampered Chef, guys. I had so much fun making this post and finding a few products that I think would be GREAT for the Christmas season. Of course Pampered Chef has a gazillion amazing products. If you want to check them all out, I will leave me link below! If you have any questions about products, Pampered Chef in general, or just want to chat, head over to my Facebook or Instagram pages! Have the best week, everyone! 

My Pampered Chef Link: 

Monday, November 14, 2016

Too Much Physical Activity! | A Weekend Recap

Phew! What a weekend. A weekend I DESPERATELY needed!

I feel so lucky to be married to the guy I am and so blessed to be able to have weekends like this. It doesn't happen often, but sometimes we just need to do fun things and spend some quality time with each other! 

We drove down to the "big city" (*cough phoenix cough*) on Thursday night. What was the first thing we did? Put our child down for bed and ordered take-out sushi. HOLLLERRR!!!!! Guys. I'm obsessed with sushi. It's bad. I could eat it every day. Anyone want to go on a sushi date sometime?!

Friday morning I dropped baby girl off with some family for the weekend and went to see an old high school friend. Also, I tried Thrive for the first time. I will do a separate post on it BUT HAS ANYONE TRIED IT?! Holy. Crap! Friday in the afternoon my sweet sister Michelle set up a massage for us! Much needed. Much MUCH needed. I also missed my turn getting to the place and saw a pedestrian get hit by a car. 
But nonetheless, I made it to the massage! It was glorious.

Friday night we went to a quick housewarming party (and by quick I mean we were there for like 10 mins. Sorry!) and headed to dinner with my sister in-law! We had a fun night of bowling where I DOMINATED in the scavenger hunt and won 6 free games of bowling. No idea why I think that's necessary. But it was. And I did it!


Saturday morning we did breakfast at TC Eggingtons. Y'all…I'll be honest….I am not a breakfast person. It just doesn't tickle my fancy. But I still had a yummy parfait and how cool is this coffee bar outside the restaurant?! The cutest.




After breakfast we headed to Top Golf for the first time. Not sure what I was thinking seeing as we went bowling the night before and I am the least active person EVER. Guys….i'm really sore today. Like….embarrassingly sore! But let's be honest…Top Golf was AMAZING! Have you ever been?! Such a fun time!


Saturday night we did "fancy date" at the same place M took me for our first "fancy date". The view at The Compass Room is always wonderful and the food/drinks are devine! We had a creme brûlée trio that I stupidly did not photograph that was out of this world!





Sunday we did a Costco run. (Do all adults love this or just us?!) and went to the mall. We don't have one of those where we live so that's a real treat for me!

This weekend was a good one. It was relaxing, yet exciting. It was exactly what my heart needed. Alone time with the hubs. Good food, good friends, good times. I hope everyone has a great and fabulous week! XOXO!